Dear Fellow Military Family Members,
I know that many of you are as outraged as I am about the violence in Charlottesville, VA this past weekend. The images of armed white men waving Nazi flags and shouting “Heil Trump!” are not easy to forget. Indeed, they’re images we never should.
Sadly, there were veterans who participated in this disgusting display of hatred and bigotry. Former Marine, Dillon Hopper, has even been identified as a leader of Vanguard America – a neo-Nazi hate group. Additionally, several active duty military members have been identified as voicing their support for the violence on social media, as well as making vile statements about Heather Heyer, the woman who was murdered in a terrorist attack when a car was driven into a crowd of counter-protesters.
As a community, I know we don’t condone this depravity. But here’s the thing: If we don’t speak out against it – loudly and publicly – we allow men like Dillon Hopper to speak for us. There have been far too few public condemnations of the alt-right and white nationalists’ movements by the military community. And I get it, if your partner, or your daughter, or your brother wears a uniform, their political speech is lawfully curtailed. But YOURS isn’t. Mine isn’t.
Traditionally, we aren’t a politically active community. We are often told not to rock the boat in case we reflect poorly on our servicemember. But Naomi Shulman was right when she said that “nice people made the best Nazis.” They were the ones who wanted to focus on happier things, who turned a blind eye, who didn’t want to “be political.” Well, in my mind, our community no longer has the choice about whether or not we can “be political.” Men like Dillon Hopper have forced our hands. It’s not enough to condemn the alt-right quietly to our friends over coffee or wine. We must publicly engage in this discussion, and it’s time to unequivocally choose a side.
And since we’re being real here, I truly don’t think any servicemember would be in danger of violating DOD Directive 1344.10 for saying “Fuck Nazis” in any format they choose. We fought a World War against those bastards, and tens of thousands of servicemembers died in the attempt to exterminate their ideology. I’d say American servicemembers vocalizing their contempt for Nazis is simply paying respect to the men and women on whose shoulders they stand.
If we don’t want the military community to be pigeonholed as sympathetic to the alt-right movement, we must act. And don’t think just because you’re a nice person and your friends are nice people, that we aren’t being painted this way. Every time Fox News or any other right-wing media co-opts our voices, we are painted this way. Every time men like Dillon Hopper identify themselves as Marines, we are painted this way. Every time “militias” don their fatigues and faux-military patches and march around with assault rifles, we are painted this way.
But we don’t have to let them paint us this way.
Here are 6 things we can do to stop them:
- Show the love on social media. Openly denounce these racist Nazi terrorists for who and what they are. Fill your feed with articles condemning the alt-right. This has much more of an impact than you might imagine, because it puts social pressure on our entire community. If you’re open about how disgusting you find the alt-right, others will find the courage to speak up too.
- Don’t equivocate. If someone tries to bait you into a discussion about the “alt-left,” BLM, or Antifa, tell them you’re not talking about that, right now, you’re condemning Nazis and the alt-right, and you’d like it if they did too.
- Open your pocketbook. Donate to organizations such as the Southern Poverty Law Center and the Anti-Defamation League.
- Write to your newspaper. Identify yourself as a military family member and condemn the alt-right.
- Join local political or church groups leading the charge against alt-right extremism. While you’re there, tell them you’re a military family member.
- Show up at a protest. This may seem scary, especially after last weekend, but we are not cowards. Come up with a creative sign and hit the street at your next legal, local protest. Wear a yellow ribbon identifying yourself as a military family member and speak out.
I understand how frightening it is to stand up against hatred. You may feel like you’re making yourself a target, or that you’re reflecting badly on your servicemember. I won’t sugarcoat it, the former may be true. But the latter is absurd, and it depresses me that we must consider, even for a moment, that speaking out against white supremacists may mean backlash for our servicemembers at work. The implications of that truth are for another article.
The simple fact remains that there is no middle ground when we’re talking about literal Nazis waving swastikas and shouting “blood and soil” on the streets of Charlottesville, VA in 2017. We must condemn them. If we don’t, our silence implies consent. So, if you haven’t already, identify yourself as a milspouse, or a milmom, or a milbrother, and speak out against violence and bigotry. Our voices are powerful, and raised together against hate they will make a difference.
Yours in solidarity,